Molly And The Toxic Ghosts Of ‘Insecure’ Season 3
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For the first time in this series, Issa has chosen herself in a healthy and responsible way. She finally unpacks her apartment, literally and Canada Goose Jackets metaphorically. She’s in her own home, sitting on her own couch, absolved of that internalized failure she’s felt all season. That’s growth.
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Taryn: It’s weird, but I’m also laughing at her clown ass. This is the beginning of a tumble down a steep hill, face first. She deserves.
I wanna root for her, but I need to see her get humbled first. ‘Cause at this point, I just view her as a bad person.
Julia: Molly is 100 percent a bad person with decent intentions, which is so fucking weird lol.
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Taryn: I’m in that place, too, with the Nathan situation. Especially since it was Issa’s birthday. Molly canada goose black friday sale was looking out because she didn’t want Issa to have to deal with drama. If I was in Molly’s shoes, I may canada goose store have done the same. You been gone for how long, my nigga? And you wanna just pop up and expect my girl to give you time on her big day? Boy, you must be trippin. Had her looking dumb in these streets just last episode. I think I would’ve told Issa right after shooing him away, though. I see cons in both scenarios. If Molly wasn’t doing the most in other areas, I think Issa wouldn’t have been as mad at her.
Julia: Right as we saw when Issa’s reaction to Molly turning Nathan away bubbled up into Canada Goose online how negative she’s been cheap Canada Goose in general. And I def would have done the same thing and immediately told my friend. I’m glad Issa did tell Nathan to get the fuck but we can dissect that scene later.
Taryn: Molly just can’t sit up straight. Who knew she would Canada Goose sale become Taurean squared at work?
(Is “Molly just can’t sit up straight” some country shit to say? Cause it feels like it lol)
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Taurean is really whining and pouting because he didn’t get to fact check and oversee Molly’s work. BOIIIIIIIIII if you don’t GET! But, again, for the ladies: I get it. I’d be done with her, too. And Issa was right about Molly being negative at work.
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Taryn: So a few things. Let’s start with Taurean’s bitch ass calling Molly aggressive. He’s mad because, like Molly, he’s used to being at the top, yet he got sonned by a woman who he underestimated, so now he has egg on his face. He’s well within his right to be upset about it, but by calling her aggressive, he earned a hearty “fuck you” from me. Being a black woman in a corporate workplace is tough enough without men doing their damnedest to peg us as aggressive or any other word synonymous with “angry black woman.” I’ve been called aggressive by white people at work, but there’s this extra sting that comes when a black man calls me that (which has happened recently at work). Molly is literally playing Taurean’s game, yet it’s a double standard when women play hardball. Men get away with it and are often praised for asserting themselves and getting the job done. But when Molly does it, she’s aggressive? Oh.
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Molly too focused on being one of the boys instead of being the womanist superhero who slaughters the patriarchy. And Sis, I wish I had a dollar for every time I was called “aggressive” or “determined” or “a go getter.” What else am I supposed to be? Because I don’t get to be mediocre like the white girls and boys (and some of the black boys, too, canada goose outlet but that’s a topic for another day, okurrrrr).
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Julia: There’s much to be said about slightly above average black men who get painted as “geniuses” simply because they are men. But, again, different day.